We arrived at the Newark airport yesterday afternoon after a nine hour flight from Rome and I felt that I physically missed Italy. I don't know how to explain it, but about midway through the flight it was as if I were pulled from the last month and moved back into something more familiar. I find it strange this morning not to have to pay such close attention to the computer keyboard (as I did in Italy because it was a bit different) and to not spend a few minutes thinking about how to communicate an idea in Italian. Already I sense the gelato withdrawl will not be easy, I should have had two servings by this time today.
I am spending this week with my family in New Jersey and Connecticut. When I return to Denver I plan to post more pictures and stories from Italy. As I begin to reflect on this past month, I am somewhat overwhelmed and believe I will continue absorbing the experience for some time...
Ciao Italia, ci vediamo.
p.s. - It was comforting to meet a woman at the grocery store today who was from Bari. She moved here when she was fourteen years old and has not been back since. We talked a bit in Italian and it simply made me smile.
I left Matera in the morning yesterday and took a bus to Rome. The last few nights there were amazing concerts in the piazza and I even had the chance to buy a cd of one of the bands. I'm not sure how to describe them, they had about nine or ten members and played the accordian, tambourine, guitar, drums, and probably a few other instruments I can't remember. I love the diversity of people in the square, whether they are there to listen to the music or just be with the community. My last night in Matera, there was a huge parade to end a festival that culminated last week, the day before I arrived. Apparently, all the people in the town gather and destroy this float that took 90 days to create and carrying a piece away is like a trophy and I think good luck for the year. I like to think that the parade was simply in honor of my departure, I did keep hearing my name in the chants and prayers. There was a classical concert outside the church where the parade procession began and while I was waiting for it to start, I walked down into the piazza to get something to eat. The piazza was wall to wall people and the priest, or maybe bishop, was addressing the town, to end the festival I think. The procession was led by a statue (not made of stone, like a really big doll) which held a miniature version of herself carried on a horse drawn carriage. As I headed back to the concert, the streets were covered in horse poop and the parade made it's way back to the church and after a bit more chanting (which I tried to record) to end the festival, the classical concert began. I hope this post makes sense as my head seems a bit clouded today and all the events in Matera seemed interwoven and a bit complex. I will miss the winding cobblestone streets and stairways here and listening to people gathered in the square at night, talking and laughing together.
After a few days in Matera, nothing seems as far or as
difficult to get to as it did the first day. Streets become familiar and easier
to navigate, though once in a while a wrong turn leads to a new and beautiful
place in the Sassi area of Matera. What strikes me so far in Italy is the
selflessness of people, everyone is willing to go out of their way to help.
When you ask where something is, it is likely they will not simply tell you but
walk you there or call a friend to meet you or offer to drive you. The only
judgement I have sensed here thus far is from women on the street who
offer somewhat disapproving looks about my shoes, which after seeing the shoes
of all the women here I completely understand. A short post today as the town is
about to close down for it's afternoon rest, will post more pictures when I can. Ciao.
It was harder than I imagined saying goodbye to my family and to Sicily. I actually feel as though I'm leaving a piece of myself behind, perhaps so I will have to return for it. I feel a connection that until a week ago simply did not exist. Thank you to Fund for Teachers, I can not begin to express how grateful I am for the chance to spend this time with my relatives. The wording in my proposal was to establish a connection with my relatives in Sicily and I could not have asked for it to be a better one. I have invited all my relatives to visit me in America whenever they would like to come, we'll see what happens.
I am now in Matera and finally feeling a bit rested. The overnight train ride from Sicily did not allow for much rest as the other person in my compartment snored in a way I have never heard before. I arrived here at the end of a festival and there was a marching band in the street and tons of people in the town square. Everyday the town is quiet from about 1:30 until about 4:00, when all the stores close and people go home to eat, rest, and just be with other people. I have just begun a closer examination of the Sassi dwellings and hope to post more soon.
It has been a long time since I have had such full days, I am exhausted and exhilarated at the same time. I have been staying with the family of Michele Miragliotta (his dad was my grandfather's brother) and I think we have visited every relative they know of here, although one day we simply ran into someone on the street in town and Tina (wife of Michele) said, oh look there's anther cousin of your mom. I have visited Tindari, Taormina, and Siracusa - each time accompanied by one to eight family members - and, of course, spent a day at the beach (with the family of Nicola Miragliotta - his mom was my grandmother's sister). I had the chance to visit the house where my grandfather was born and inside we found a picture of my Aunt Mary that my grandfather had sent when she was six months old and a few pictures of Giovanni (my grandfather's brother) who lived in the house until about two years ago and passed away this January at 91. I have taken a lot of pictures but because they have each been taking a long time to upload, I'm only posting a few today. Ciao per adesso...
I spent today meeting so many different people that I have to write down their connections or I will forget who they are by the time I arrive home. The first thing we did today was visit the house of my grandmother, Maria, where her brother's wife, Antonina, still lives and then I got a somewhat closer look at the house where my grandfather was born but we were driving and one must get to his house on foot.
I'm finally able to post some photos from Rome. The two below are a great example of what I mentioned in today's earlier post about massiveness and minute detail side by side. Although I feel like I have a lot to say about the last few days, I shall refrain for a few reasons but mostly because I want to be sure to get some photos up before my time runs out. I'll post what I can and post more photos when I next have access (I leave for Sicily in the morning).
I arrived in Rome Thursday afternoon and have been exploring the area around the Termini on foot. I am not yet able to post photos but will as soon as I can. It is quite difficult for me to absorb the positioning of the new amid the old here. I met a woman last night who has lived here for over thirty years - she told me that when she first moved here she thought she found heaven and now she no longer recognizes this place. The old here is old, palpable old, if that makes sense and it is difficult to not wonder what the people from long ago would make of what it has become. For some reason, looking at the modern buildings (here or anywhere for that matter) as compared to those of ancient Rome I saw the ruins of yesterday, make me think that the concept of disposability extends far beyond what I have thought in the past. Yesterday I visited the Forum, Santa Maria degli Angeli, and the Column of Trajan. To look at theses places and see massiveness and minute detail so beautifully woven together is mind boggling.

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